Father - Daughter Dance

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Don't make dad cry...at least until he gets the bill for your wedding!

As a Dad, I'm sure I can speak for millions of men that dread the day when they have to give their precious little angel away. It was a day that I didn't look forward to at all.

As a wedding entertainer (I always loved weddings and it helped finance my career as a composer) at over a thousand weddings, I nervously watched the Father-Daughter Dance. I always felt bad for the Dads because I could see how stressed out they were. Some had complete meltdowns...not good!

Fortunately, my daughter chose “Unforgettable” by Natalie and Nat Cole. It was a song with a happy vibe, and with the help of the bridal party, who were a bunch of “live wires,” I made it through. Whew! I was glad when it was over!

I recently wrote the song, “Waltz With Me, Dad” which is perfect for the Father-Daughter Dance, or any time a father would like to dance with his daughter, which is anytime, or a daughter wanting to dance with her Dad.

The dance can be a simple, hug and sway to the music, a simple waltz step, or a more choreographed routine. You can find many dance lessons on YouTube or take a dance class.

I played all the instruments for the song and hired a beautiful singer, Elsa, for the final studio recording.

I hope that “Waltz With Me, Dad” will bring you and your guests some joy on your wedding day and help your Dad make it through!

Listen and Purchase HERE!

RJ

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Christmas and New Year's Weddings

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Holiday weddings are very popular. I performed at many holiday and New Year’s Eve weddings. The use of holiday colors, especially red and white can be quite spectacular. Another advantage to having a wedding in December is that most of the banquet facilities and hotels are highly decorated already so it cuts down on the amount of decorations that you are responsible for.

If you have a New Year’s Eve wedding, your quests will really be in a partying mood. After your wedding ceremony, the dance floor will be packed all night!

The processional “Rose Petals” is perfect for a Christmas wedding ceremony.

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Music Sets The Tone

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Close your eyes. You are sitting outside on a beautiful, sunny afternoon in May waiting for a wedding ceremony to begin. The sky is blue and the sun is shining. You can smell the fragrance of fresh flowers. You feel great wearing a brand new outfit. Nice...

What this scene needs now is music.

How important is the music? Extremely important! Next time you watch TV or a movie, turn down the volume for a few seconds. What happens to that high speed chase scene or romantic scene without music? The scenes lose their impact. Even if the background music is soft, it is still there to help create the mood.

The same thing goes for a wedding ceremony, cocktail or dinner party. Silence is empty. The proper music will create the mood that you want and your guests will enjoy.

What are your options?

Vocal or Instrumental Music

Most of the music for a wedding ceremony will be in the background so instrumental music will create the mood without being intrusive. However, one song might be nice just before the wedding ceremony and maybe one during the ceremony. A live singer can make it really special. Songs with vocals don’t work well for the Bride’s Processional because of the length of the actual processional. The actual processional usually takes between 30 seconds and a minute. Instrumental music can fade out gracefully whereas a three minute song would need to be played in its entirety, which could be very awkward if the Bride has to stand at the altar for two minutes while the song is sung.

Instrumentation

If the wedding ceremony is in a church, a pipe organ, piano, string quartet or solo instruments work well.

If the wedding ceremony is in a hotel lobby or ballroom, piano (live or recorded) is nice. Any small ensemble will also work well. (Flute Solo or Duet, Violin Solo or Duet, Cello Solo, Guitar Solo, String Trio or Quartet) (live or recorded) Pipe organ or large instrumental groups really aren’t appropriate.

If the wedding ceremony is to be held outside in a park, by a lake, by a pool, at a gazebo etc. the instrumentation should be organic in order to be believable. Any musical instruments that don’t require electronic amplification will be nice. (Flute, Violin, String Quartet or Trio.

Musical Selections

Of course, there are the old wedding ceremony music standards, “Here Comes The Bride”, Pachelbel’s “Canon in D”, The “Wedding March” etc. If you want your wedding to be unique, these will not work.

Since the Bride and Groom and Bridal Party are usually dressed formally, elegant music will fit perfectly. New classical music or at least music that is not tired and overplayed is a good choice.

Many wedding ceremony music performers now offer arrangements of songs by the Beatles, Journey and other more modern music. This is an attempt to be more “hip or modern.” Actually, it is an attempt to perform anything besides the tired traditional wedding ceremony music. Some arrangements sound nice but some sound really out of place. If you decide to go in this direction, make sure you hear the arrangements for yourself. Sometimes, just because something can be done, doesn’t mean it should be done. Imagine a heavy metal guitarist rocking out on an orchestral melody, an opera singer performing a country song, a symphony orchestra playing songs by Jimi Hendrix. Some things just don’t fit.

Listen to some original light classical wedding ceremony music.

I hope this gives you some food for thought.

Listen to some musical examples.

I hope this helps.

R.J. Mitchell - Wedding Music Expert, Composer, Professional Musician, 30 Years Experience as a Wedding Entertainer

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